Last night, she asked me to stop coming on here out of respect for her.
Nah man, that's called emotional blackmail, not on.
I don't see how what you as a grown man decide to look at on the internet is anything to do with her. Now if you were wanting to upload naked photos of her online, then fine, that would be disrespecting her - but looking on a forum that's nothing to do with her is not disrespecting her.
Obviously it's easy for me to say as a 3rd party, and when feelings are involved it's hard, but she's out of line.
Does it work both ways around? Will she leave the WT "out of respect for you"?
Thought not.